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DIY Paver Patio and Outdoor Fireplace Reveal!

Hello barbies!

I'm sorry it's been so long since my last post - we've been working on a big project in the back yard, that as weeks wore on, felt like it was getting bigger and more expensive by the day. What started in March as a 2-3 week project to transform our backyard from empty and boring into a useful, relaxing outdoor living space turned into a two month project with cost overruns accumulating at an unbelievably fast rate. 
 
 
We ended up going way over budget and even more over in terms of the time it took to complete, but we are so incredibly happy with the finished product. We now have a big paver patio, hot tub, grilling area, dining area, lounge chairs and fireplace for outdoor entertaining and relaxing. The best part? Hubby mastermined every bit of it and did it by himself with some help from my very helpful, amazing family. We feel like it will add some value to our house and are looking forward to many beautiful memories in our transformed backyard!
 
THE PROCESS
 
For starters, we had to find the pavers on craigslist (since paying retail price for the amount of pavers we needed would have cost in the thousands), once we did, we paid for them, then Ross had to manually load and unload all 800 of them. They're fifteen pounds each and very coarse - so moving each one twice was no joke! Then we had to power wash each one to get the old paver sand off of them so they'd fit tightly. This was incredibly tedious but thankfully my mom helped. Then Ross had to excavate and relocate the sod for where the patio was going to go. Excavating took several days in itself because our yard was not level and there was a lot of measuring, digging and leveling involved. Once excavated, Ross used wood and then ultimately decorative paver blocks to make a border to hold in the patio. Once level, we brought in three truck loads of gravel and paver sand to lay as the foundation. Each truck load had to be shoveled out of the truck bed scoop by scoop then extensively spread and tamped to make sure it was level. Then we began laying pavers. I helped a lot with this part, unlike several other parts which were almost entirely Ross. This involved picking up, arranging and tighly weaving the paver pattern so that they would stay firmly in place. After this step, which took two full nights after work, Ross brushed in the paver sand using a broom to seal everything in place. 
 










We were so excited to finally see a nice, level patio of pavers, but Ross still had a lot of work ahead of him. He had to finish the borders, which involved more decorative blocks, which he had to mortar together to make a wall. Then, he capped the walls with wooden planks, painted in a high end paint stain from Home Depot by my sister and I. He then used his table saw to cut the planks down to size and did touch up paint on the edges. He mortared these planks on top of the decorative edge blocks.
 
Last but definitely not least, Ross built our outdoor fireplace from the ground up. For starters, he dug the fireplace's footprint out of the ground and replaced the dirt with a concrete foundation. He poured concrete and used metal rods for extra support. This was extra difficult because our yard is not level (I don't think any yard is), requiring a lot of precision to create a flat concrete foundation. Once the footings set, he began stacking and individually mortaring the same large, decorative blocks we used for the patio's border. Like the pavers, we also scoured craigslist for these, which enabled us to get a great deal on them. It also meant we had to manually load and unload them, which was a horrible process considering there were 180 of them and they weigh 45 pounds each! It took my mom, Ross and I a full Saturday just to fetch, load and unload them all and boy did we look and smell rough afterwards. Woof. Anyway, Ross stacked the blocks level by level, often waiting over night after doing a few rows to let the mortar set before he began stacking more blocks on top to make sure the structure was stable enough to support the additional weigh (with 10 45 pound blocks on each level we're talking about a lot of weight!). You can't see it, but inside the blocks there's a metal vent and funnel to escort the fumes out the top properly. When he got done, we had to purchase MORE pavers to serve as capstones. We got some that matched our CL blocks nicely from Home Depot and Ross cut them down to the right size to serve as our caps. My dad dedicated an entire Saturday to mortaring the capstones in place so that Ross could proceed with the higher blocks. It was super helpful and my dad was perfect for it because he has a really great attention to detail. During the process it felt like we were running out of mortar almost every day. Ross must have went back to Home Depot for more mortar at least 10 times - no exaggeration! Thankfully, the fireplace is finally done and I couldn't be prouder of my hubby for building it!
 



 
 
We also planted two new privacy evergreen trees so that we can enjoy the patio without feeling like everyone who drives by can see me walking around in my mismatched bikinis eating cheetos. We also bought several plants for our decorative planters to liven up the very stoney space, and in our typical fashion have already managed to kill two of them (we really suck with plants). Ross also mulched the area between the patio and the porch, which looks great!
 

Here's the before of our empty backyard and the after of our DIY backyard paradise!






















As always, thanks for reading barbies! <3 you guys to pieces!
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Easter Decorating!

Hello barbies and HAPPY SPRING!

At the BDH we are beyond ecstatic that Spring has sprung. I don't know if it's because of the 4 separate ice storms this winter in NC (which is about 4 more than in a normal year) or us missing Texas's warm weather, or both, but we're extra happy to usher in the sunshine. I planned on celebrating the first day of Spring with some time outside, but ended up working a 13 hour day on Thursday so that plan was scrapped, but I made up for lost time doing lost of yard work with hubby outside this weekend. I'm usually not a manual labor type of gal (understatement of the century) but I was so sunshine-starved that I didn't mind.

In addition to the much needed time outside, I pulled out all of my little Easter bunnies to get the house ready for Easter! The pics are below - how do you dolls celebrate Easter?

First and foremost, I couldn't resist putting our precious little pekingese Toula in her bunny costume. This little bunny melts our hearts.



Here's our first ever 7 ft Easter tree, filled with eggs, bunnies and ears on top. :)

  


 







  


 

These bunny bar stool covers have become a running joke with my mom and I. They're cheesy as can be, but too funny to resist at this point, and for some reason I'm kinda obsessed with them.

 
 
 

 

 I may have over done it with the eggs, but there's so much you can do with them!

The bunny banner above was a gift from one of my favorite ladies - she's incredibly crafty - don't you love it?!


Also, I celebrated my birthday last week! It was perfect - I took the day off and spent it with my mom and hubby at the mall shopping. Then, over the weekend, several friends and I had drinks at Big Easy in downtown Raleigh (and the service was HORRIBLE - the worst I'd ever experienced - every staffer we encountered was incredibly rude to us) then headed to the Oxford and Neptune's Parlour (much better experiences at these two). Here was my (first) outfit - I chose a pink pencil skirt and simple white crop top.

Here are some photos from my birthday celebration and my actual birthday:






Thanks for reading Easter barbies!

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250,000 views!

Late last night, as my birthday was winding to a close, I got a very special birthday surprise from you all - the blog hit one quarter of a million views! I can't think of a sweeter coincidence! Thank you all for your wonderful support!



To celebrate, I thought it would be fun to count down the top 5 viewed BDH posts since the blog's creation.

5. Our DIY chalkboard tutorial (for under $10!)



4. A compilation of some of my favorite dream swimming pool inspiration photos.



3. The recent reveal of our dining room makeover, with custom paint job and wainscoting.

2. Our 2013 Christmas Home Tour, complete with 26 full sized Christmas trees!

1. The reveal of our 11 ft Restoration Hardware inspired table, 100% built by hand by my hubby.


Thanks again for all of your loyal visits barbies! You're fabulous!
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Media Room Reveal!

Hello barbies!

Hubby and I finally got around to getting our media room situated! As you know, it sat empty (aside from it's obnoxiously bright red walls) since we bought our house, but in late January we began making some changes. We moved in our beloved sectional sofa from our master sitting room, broke down and bought and projector, hung curtains, bought some matching red throw blankets and last but not least, hubby built our 100 inch projector screen by himself! He welded aluminum for the frame, used white low-gloss laminate for the screen, and created a 2 inch thick felt border - go Ross! Some of the screens we were looking at cost upwards of $1,000, but he built ours for about $100.

Here are some pictures of the finished product, aside from framing our movie posters, which is our next goal. What do you think, dolls?


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